I think I mentioned we were going to North Carolina? Sorry if I forgot, but yes, we went to North Carolina. We were gone a week.
We needed to talk with the company that is renting out our other house. And of course we needed to see our boys. We had heard that our two youngest had lost their jobs; but we hadn't heard from them.
We took money from my husband's retirement account for the trip. Paid a penalty, but it was worth it. Found out our youngest boys are doing okay. They had not wanted to worry us. They did everything they could to make ends meet. Collected aluminum cans, scrap metal, and found a food bank. The rental agency worked with them to keep them in their apartment. The same agency handling our house for us. We are very grateful and I thank God for that. They didn't tell us everything, but they did explain that they didn't tell us because they knew I would worry.
They're right, too. But the middle son is going to college now. Between his Pell Grant, and the G.I. Bill, he said they are doing okay. The youngest boy is looking for work. We believe he has Aspergers. He does really well at jobs, and then loses them. I gave him some information and hopefully he will look into it as much as he can with no income.
We are very proud of all of our sons.
This is our oldest boy, our granddaughter through marriage, and our daughter-in-law.
He went with his wife when she went to England. While there, he got a job at Boots. Right before he left, he got his certification to be a pharmacy dispenser. He enjoyed the job so much that when they came back to America, he decided he wanted to become a Pharmacist. He did two years at the local Community College and won a full scholarship to Chapel Hill University, where he is taking classes to get his Pharmacy degree.
We are really proud of him.
Our other boys. The Iraq war vet on the left, and our youngest on the right.
They are sharing an apartment. Our veteran told us last year that he would 'take the youngest boy off our hands', to help him grow up. I know he didn't intend it to happen the way it did, but we are very proud of them for getting through a very tough time. I kind of wish they had told us though.
My thoughts are with those in the Midwest and the terrible snow storm last week.
Hope you have all been well. Will try to catch up. It's nice to be home again. Have a wonderful, blessed weekend!
You have wonderful children. It's a mark of success when you do whatever it takes to get by when things get tough.
ReplyDeleteYou have much to be proud of...fine sons.
ReplyDeleteLinda -- I can hear the worry in this post -- being a mother is a job you never retire from. Bless your boys and I do sincerely hope things look up for your youngest two. xo
ReplyDeleteYou have a wonderful family Linda! I agree with Gail...you have much to be proud of. :)
ReplyDeleteWelcome home!
Thank you. :)
DeleteHey Linda, glad for the update and looks like you did a good job of raising your kids. I was making some more laundry detergent, and had to look at an old post, and saw your comment about you making some yourself. Any updates on the laundry detergent? Take Care, and keep prepping! - K
ReplyDeleteHi K! The first laundry soap I made used Borax, Washing Soda, and Fels naptha soap, if I remember correctly. It seems to work well, and it lasts a long time! But it clumps or cakes? in the heat and humidity. Other than that, I'm happy with it. :-)
DeleteI know just how you feel ---kids always make us worry so. But in the end they come through fine.
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